Happy New Year 2013!

As I said earlier, I'm going to be writing more new entries for Griff's Cybersex Blog in 2013.

To hold up your end of the bargain, you need to leave comments.

Also, I'm going to start posting when I'm going to be on Erotic Sex Chat.

I will be on Wednesday 3:30-4:15 PM Central (6:30 AM in Japan, 9:30 PM UK) and 9:15-10:00 PM (12:15 PM in Japan, 3:15 AM UK).

"I felt worse than pathetic, and at the same time, I kept wanting to talk to you, Griff"

Yesterday I had a chat with Susie, who had given me a sweet tit pic back in the summer of 2012.

I'll post the earlier chats later, if there are requests in the comments.

Susie is dating an older guy, 34 years old. It's sorta working, except that he yells at her in public.

"Griff, please post my picture"

Back in May, 2012, I chatted with this married bitch, Jenny. Met her on Erotic Sex Chat, of course.

I probably have the chat transcript saved, but I'm not sure where.

Jenny's basic story is she's married to a reasonably well-to-do guy. He sells foreign/luxury cars in one of those countries where the poor are very poor and the rich have lots of money. She likes fucking around on him, especially with foreign guys. IIRC, one of the guys sent her back to her husband with cum smeared on Jenny's face and her husband didn't notice.

Recently Jenny has taken to begging me to put her picture on the blog.

blog more, chat less

Writers write. Bloggers blog.

In the new year, I'm going to be blogging more and chatting less.

I do have significant saved material to dip into.

If you are a fan of the blog, leave comments. And subscribe to the blog.

Feel free to ask questions.

Rachel is going to show her therapist the chat transcript

I had an interesting chat with Rachel. I told her to chat the transcript with her therapist. And she has an appointment on Thursday. So I've got to get it posted promptly.

Rachel's therapist recommend she chat online to get more comfortable dealing with men. Rachel has such low self esteem--she was chatting under "uglycunt20"--I had to ask the "Have you been molested?" question.

Another Griff-gets-it-right moment. It was her step dad.

The chat is more pathetic than hot. But I got pics of the cunt, so I figured I'd let you see her in her full pathos.

For the comments: What should be done to guys like Rachel's step dad? And: what advice would you give Rachel?

Jasmine has been idealizing her HS friend's dad who fucked her. Griff sets her straight.

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Caroline squirts after some degradation

The second time I chatted with Caroline, I had her label her dildo.

Is there any target easier that a young woman rejected by her father? Well, in Caroline's case, she was also neglected by her whore mother.

The Introduction

Griff: Hello, Caroline. It's me, Griff
Caroline (Dirty Whore): Hello
Griff: Rebecca, right?
Caroline: Um no, I'm Caroline
Caroline: [age redacted, legal adult] f, [location redacted]

I got a kick out of the fact she responded even though I mistook her for another bitch.

Facebook comments on the future of sex

For Alternet, Emily Empel wrote, "The Future of Sex? 5 Trends That May Completely Transform Our Sex Lives". It's mostly some combination of trite and off base, although one of her central thoughts is probably true: sex will be a growth business. (This is probably an interesting discussion, but not where I'm going.)

Instead I'm going to quote some of the comments on Facebook and respond to them.

JT wrote (7 "likes"):

I'm sure many people will disagree with me - but I believe that prostitution has been demonized in order to disempower women. If women could sell sex at will, then they would become much more financially independent - and laws could be put in place to protect them from abuse and disease.

It seems that the most typical situation around the world is that having prostitution illegal creates a situation where the hand of management (pimps) is strengthened when negotiating with workers (prostitutes).

When is a guy being "creepy"?

Have I written about feminism?

To the extent feminism is about empowering women, making sex more accessible and enjoyable and getting past society using sexuality as a cudgel of social control, I'm with the feminists.

But when feminism becomes the cudgel for social control and attacking men, that's where I part ways with feminists.

In Jezebel, Hugo Schwyzer wrote, "Why Guys Really Hate Being Called ‘Creepy’".

sub mommy comes looking for humiliation, faces her past

Kim(berly) chatted under the name "sub mommy". I sought to break her.

She didn't give any obvious material at first, characterizing her divorce as being from "growing apart", innocuous sounding.

After I got some stuff on Kim, I brought her into a private chat with Stephanie. Stephanie discovered submission when her college boyfriend got her drunk and persuaded her to let his two buds watch him fuck her ass. The bf called Stephanie "dirty bitch" when he fucked her ass the first time. The three guys took turns: one in her ass, one in her mouth and one holding her down.

Anyways... as much as I'd like to believe you're here to read my words, I expect you want to read the chat transcript.