Thursday, January 3, 2013

Do women want sex less deeper into a relationship?

Study: The longer a woman is in a relationship, the more her sexual desire decreases. Men reported no such decrease. 

See "Why women lose interest in sex" by Jennifer Abbasi.

The term "Lesbian Bed Death" goes back to 1983, so it seems like it might be real.

I think there's something missing in the understanding of women losing interest in sex as they get deeper into relationships.

I think many couples have problems around the sex being boring. Boring sex where the guys gets his nut is ok for him, not so good for her.

The University of Guelph researchers did ask the women if about sexual satisfaction.

Murray added that the self-reported nature of the study could have also skewed the results. "It has been theorized that men may be less inclined to admit that they have low desire as this is considered against male gender norms and masculinity," she said. "Thus, it may be that men are not accurately reporting their level of desire and they may too experience a decrease."
To me it's interesting that the researchers questioned the men self-reporting about desire and not the women self-reporting about satisfaction.

What should Griff call his Tumblr microblog?

Publishing online means having to stay current.

What I've noticed is there is a vibrant community of people whom I suspect will "get" Griff's Cybersex Blog on Tumblr.

Being on Blogger (fka Blogspot) hasn't gotten GCB the attention I believe the blog deserves.

However, I'm not going to abandon Blogger. I'm going to keep this account for text and open a Tumblr account that will be more visual and links to the longer text entries on GCB.

Any suggestions on a name for the Tumblr account?

BTW, this Compete Pulse article dated October 26, 2011 shows graphically how Blogger traffic was in decline and Tumblr was in ascendancy.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

"I'd like to compete with my mom, see who fucked better"

I'm working backwards through saved material. This is from December 28. I met Cindy in the Erotic Sex Chat "Family Fun Room". Cindy wants to fuck a guy who has fucked her mother so she can be compared to her mother.

By coincidence, I ran into another Asian Cindy a couple days later, but she had a different personality.

One of the girl's I chat regularly, Bethany, has some issues around her mother.

Monday, December 31, 2012

Happy New Year 2013!

As I said earlier, I'm going to be writing more new entries for Griff's Cybersex Blog in 2013.

To hold up your end of the bargain, you need to leave comments.

Also, I'm going to start posting when I'm going to be on Erotic Sex Chat.

I will be on Wednesday 3:30-4:15 PM Central (6:30 AM in Japan, 9:30 PM UK) and 9:15-10:00 PM (12:15 PM in Japan, 3:15 AM UK).

Sunday, December 30, 2012

"I felt worse than pathetic, and at the same time, I kept wanting to talk to you, Griff"

Yesterday I had a chat with Susie, who had given me a sweet tit pic back in the summer of 2012.

I'll post the earlier chats later, if there are requests in the comments.

Susie is dating an older guy, 34 years old. It's sorta working, except that he yells at her in public.

"Griff, please post my picture"

Back in May, 2012, I chatted with this married bitch, Jenny. Met her on Erotic Sex Chat, of course.

I probably have the chat transcript saved, but I'm not sure where.

Jenny's basic story is she's married to a reasonably well-to-do guy. He sells foreign/luxury cars in one of those countries where the poor are very poor and the rich have lots of money. She likes fucking around on him, especially with foreign guys. IIRC, one of the guys sent her back to her husband with cum smeared on Jenny's face and her husband didn't notice.

Recently Jenny has taken to begging me to put her picture on the blog.

blog more, chat less

Writers write. Bloggers blog.

In the new year, I'm going to be blogging more and chatting less.

I do have significant saved material to dip into.

If you are a fan of the blog, leave comments. And subscribe to the blog.

Feel free to ask questions.