Cybersex is the people's literature

One way to look at cybersex chats is that they are like amateur phone sex. And phone sex is about building a fantasy into a story that meets the customers needs. What's the fantasy? How much time (money)? Let's make a story.

Cybersex chats are similar.

Before radio and recorded music, people would be able to tell stories, jokes, recite poems and literature and sing.

Now, there's much less of this. Top level performers can distribute their work cheaply and easily through the Internet.

But we still have an impulse to be creative.

Cybersex chats should probably be considered collaborative storytelling. And it's one form of art that hasn't been professionalized.

Cybersex is the people's literature. People who create good cybersex chats are the modern version of the village story teller.

"It's not who you have sex with; it's who you fantasize about."

This is something I got from a gay friend.

Your sexual orientation is not determined by whom you have sex with; it's determined by whom you fantasize about having sex with.

I think my friend gained this wisdom chasing after a male prostitute who made money having sex with men. But given his druthers (and enough money to hire a prostitute himself) he decided to hire a female prostitute and rubs my friend's nose in it.