Facebook comments on the future of sex

For Alternet, Emily Empel wrote, "The Future of Sex? 5 Trends That May Completely Transform Our Sex Lives". It's mostly some combination of trite and off base, although one of her central thoughts is probably true: sex will be a growth business. (This is probably an interesting discussion, but not where I'm going.)

Instead I'm going to quote some of the comments on Facebook and respond to them.

JT wrote (7 "likes"):

I'm sure many people will disagree with me - but I believe that prostitution has been demonized in order to disempower women. If women could sell sex at will, then they would become much more financially independent - and laws could be put in place to protect them from abuse and disease.

It seems that the most typical situation around the world is that having prostitution illegal creates a situation where the hand of management (pimps) is strengthened when negotiating with workers (prostitutes).

When is a guy being "creepy"?

Have I written about feminism?

To the extent feminism is about empowering women, making sex more accessible and enjoyable and getting past society using sexuality as a cudgel of social control, I'm with the feminists.

But when feminism becomes the cudgel for social control and attacking men, that's where I part ways with feminists.

In Jezebel, Hugo Schwyzer wrote, "Why Guys Really Hate Being Called ‘Creepy’".

sub mommy comes looking for humiliation, faces her past

Kim(berly) chatted under the name "sub mommy". I sought to break her.

She didn't give any obvious material at first, characterizing her divorce as being from "growing apart", innocuous sounding.

After I got some stuff on Kim, I brought her into a private chat with Stephanie. Stephanie discovered submission when her college boyfriend got her drunk and persuaded her to let his two buds watch him fuck her ass. The bf called Stephanie "dirty bitch" when he fucked her ass the first time. The three guys took turns: one in her ass, one in her mouth and one holding her down.

Anyways... as much as I'd like to believe you're here to read my words, I expect you want to read the chat transcript.

Isabelle turn tricks at the grocery store where she works

Master Viper's unfaithful Indian wife

I was chatting on Erotic Sex Chat with Master Viper and I told him I had heard good things about his work (which I had from an anonymous source). I asked him if he had any material for Griff's Cybersex Blog.

Brady, open your eyes! Your wife is cheating.

One of the things I get a kick out of is when I can disabuse someone of their beliefs about the world and their place in it. It's cruel, but most people would rather know the truth, right?

I met Brady in the Erotic Sex Chat "Family Fun Room". I mentioned something about a woman being molested by her uncle in the room and Brady PM'd me.

Poor guy. His main sexual fantasy was about his wife. And by the end of the chat I had to point out that she was an unfaithful whore.

Wife molested by uncle said her "body responded"

Griff have you touch your children sexually?
Brady, Married 36: no, but i was interested in your comment. my wife was molested by an uncle
Griff chat with IncestMom
Brady, Married 36: she gave you details?
Griff yes. has your wife been holding out on you?
Brady, Married 36: holding out?
Griff has she told you she enjoyed sex with her uncle?
Brady, Married 36: she said she didn't want it, but that her "body responded"
Griff that sounds pretty truthful
Griff have you wondered about it?
Brady, Married 36: of course. i'm not sure exactly what she meanss by it

Ms. Sweden shows her tits

email subj line: "can't believe you made me send this"

I was chatting this one on Erotic Sex Chat, her name escapes me. She said she liked me calling her "Ms. Sweden". She was a bit reluctant, but I got her.